What you say about others, reveals something about yourself. Specifically, when you speak negatively about someone, not only does it ruin their reputation but ruins your credibility. When you speak negatively about someone, it is usually done for personal gain. Maybe that helps you stand a little bit taller. Maybe by ruining their reputation, you feel less threatened by the other person. Maybe the other person knows your dirty secrets.
Experience things for yourself. Don't make up your mind by something someone else said. Question everything.
If that person did that to them, who's to say they won't do that to me?
